If there is worst job to do and worst experiences for the kids, it is discipline....
What I am going to say, many of you may contradict.....but still read on. I have purposefully names it as cooperating with kids rather than discipline and getting kids to cooperate..hi
Isnt it easier to cooperate with others rather than trying to discipline....or getting them to cooperate with us.....
think over this.....beasue first step towards parenting :
Being relaxed........One cannot perform his/her best unless he is relaxed, open for thinking, open for understanding
other thing to keep in mind is : Whatever kids do, they have a reason for that. No kid does somehthing just to irritate parent. It has some connection with his feelings and choices.
Hence if kid is misbehaving, thats the time, he/she needs most of your love.
Are things looking upside down.....and yes, I mean that. We need to change the approach completely.
Now, I will first give examples, that occur with my daughter, both type, where I fail to cooperate and where I succeed in cooperating. And you are free to choose to think and learn from them as you want.
Coming up with real experiences n situations soon....
Kirti
About Me
- kirti
- I am a mother of 3 yr old child....and was working as s/w engg before the child was born.....but everything changed after the baby came into this world.....and it leads to changed interests in everything that I do. I decided to leave the high paying job and get into more satisfying, creative and purest form of role, thats the role of the mother....these 3 years have been a great jounrey to change my personality and views...its not jus the role change from being s/w engg and wife to mother...it has lot to do it, lot many ways the baby has contributed in it and lot more I have learned in life, life became more meaningful than the mere need to earn money and enjoying luxuries.....
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